Concious relationships over the Festive Season... - Alice Allum | The BE Platform
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17 Nov Concious relationships over the Festive Season…

Concious relationships over the Festive Season… ๐Ÿ’ซ (Too soon?! ๐Ÿคญ๐ŸŽ„)

(Plus a killer one liner that will save your sanity as the months get busier! ๐Ÿ˜…โคต๏ธ)

Last year Lisa and I chose to spend Christmas apart and this year weโ€™re choosing the same. Iโ€™ll be hoping on a plane to travel with my sisters (โœˆ๏ธ๐Ÿ™Š๐Ÿฅฅ๐Ÿ›ต๐ŸŒด) and Lisa will be doing Action Movie marathons ๐Ÿ˜†, Dog Duties ๐Ÿ•& catching up with her bro whoโ€™s in the army. (Her perfect Crimbo! ๐ŸŽ)

Being in a conscious relationship means being an ENABLER for each otherโ€™s growth & dreams throughout ALL seasons – & Christmas is no exception! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป

Being a true enabler means helping your partner make the right choices for them…not just you (even if at times it feels hard – like being apart at Christmas – but this is key ๐Ÿ”‘ for a thriving relationship.)

For me Christmas was a time where my diary was filled with everyoneโ€™s plans but my own ๐Ÿ˜ด – Endless trips to see people I barely knew, random festive parties, weird local events – Iโ€™d feel so exhausted and disappointed – all I really wanted to do was read my books๐Ÿ“”, be out on adventures ๐Ÿ”or planning the next BE retreat! ๐Ÿง˜๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ”ฎ (which btw 2020 dates coming soon! ๐ŸŽ‰๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿป)

The past few years Iโ€™ve sat down and asked myself; what would I LOVE to GIVE AND GAIN over the Festive months? & Itโ€™s transformed everything!๐ŸŽ

So before you fill up your diary…remember you have a unique opportunity arriving on your doorstep…๐Ÿ˜ the people you love will have time off, your own work schedule will calm down for a week or so and community spirits will be higher than ever! ๐Ÿฅฐ

Resist the urge to reply โ€˜yesโ€™ to all the invites and instead respond with โ€˜thank you so much, I will check my scheduleโ€™ – designing a Christmas aligned with your own vision will set you up with strength, courage and inspiration for 2020.

First and foremost learn how to be your own enabler in life – just a little festive tip from AL the Christmas Elf ๐ŸŽ„๐ŸŽ

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